Ways to Harness the Power of Fear
Human beings like duality as it makes things easier for them. It keeps things simple. There’s good and there’s bad. There’s stress and there’s relaxation. There’s ambition and there’s laziness. There’s courage and there’s fear. And lets all face it!!
When you flip the coin, fear doesn’t look so bad. In fact, fear is the single powerful tool to help you become stronger and successful. Its your fear that can help you accomplish everything you’ve ever desired of. All you have to do is lean into your fears instead of shoving them in the shadows and running away.
Here are four ways through which your fears can make you stronger & successful:
Fear identifies your self-imposed limits and beliefs.
Fears are subjective, and courage isn’t about overcoming someone else fears; it’s about overcoming your own. Fears mostly take place where we are personally holding ourselves back from moving ahead, and what underlying beliefs are keeping us there. Fear stems from feeling unsafe and insecure if you involve in a particular activity. So it helps you undo your limiting beliefs.
They show you what’s important to you.
Fear is a strong reaction. If something weren’t important to you, you might feel angry or maybe even low-level anxiety. But you definitely wouldn’t feel fear. That racing heartbeat, those sweaty palms, that clenched stomach are all symptoms of thinking a lot about something. Whatever you’re most afraid of is an area that you care deeply about — and potentially one of your hidden passions.
They’re a compass for success.
No doubt, fear is the strongest indicator to create an obstacle to success. The things you are afraid of are the very obstacles you need to overcome to become successful. With each fear you push through and move ahead, you prove to yourself that you’re capable of surviving something terrifying, and you earn yourself more confidence. In facing the scariest moments of my life — fighting an illness, telling my best friend I cared for him, quitting a high-level job and starting a new business, I always reached new heights of success, regardless of the outcome.
Fears are the best tool to achieve self-growth.
As wellness and spiritual seekers, we’re always on the lookout for positive, enlightened ways to learn more about ourselves and the world. But the truth is that the so-called “negative” parts of ourselves can teach us just as much, if not more, than the positive aspects. Fear shows us areas where we want to grow and expand. And we’ll never run out of fears in this lifetime. Every time we conquer a fear, we find a dozen new ones, because it’s helping us dig through the layers and find the courage to be ourselves.
At its heart, success is really about self-acceptance. It’s about having the self-esteem and courage to be yourself, live the life you were born to live, and create overwhelming abundance for just being you. Not anyone else – just you.
Fear is a huge part of you. One that we all want to run away from and hide, because it’s unpleasant. It’s uncomfortable. And it’s unknown. Just like growth.
To become successful – successful on your own terms, you have to lean into your fears. You have to shine some light on them. You have to let them show you the next steps to success.